
The Vault


Potential dates, apply here …
Here we are in March already! Another year is just flying by. Once again, I am taking applications for potential dates. Well, I should somehow reword that. My shrink told me that I have a pattern of always picking guys that are potential good partners and not someone who is, already in the present, ready…
Everything’s going to pot
The essence of a one-pot meal is it is economical, dishwasher friendly and (if the recipe is right) brings people together. In this time of a subdued economy, the one-pot meal has brought me household savings and communion over the stove, both of which provide relief from what can otherwise be an unnerving time. So,…

Aye aye, Sir – or Ma’am!
Fall-in! It’s a very familiar command to all members of the armed forces. It means get in formation, line-up, dress right dress and stand tall! Yes boys and girls, Sirs and Doms, it’s time to show your military leather pride. This year, the San Diego Leather Pride Community is celebrating our roots! Yes, that’s right;…
Break out your ’60s pearls for this vintage mid-century haunt
In San Diego, our neighborhoods are all very unique. Probably so much so, that we tend to never leave them. I often talk to people who live in North Park that never venture to Little Italy. Some Hillcrest residents stay within the triangle of Bankers Hill, University Heights and Mission Hills. Even La Jolla sometimes…




The gay-list
A few months ago, I met a handsome man at a bar. I recognized him as one of the better-known, more beautiful men of Hillcrest and decided to approach him. We talked for a while about his passion for music and his desire to break into the industry. We both shared big dreams, but aside…